Fandom is an interesting thing. I’ve recently been
contemplating what “fandom” actually means and what it means to be a part of
one. I always thought to the belong to a fandom meant that you had to be out
there, waving your fangirl flag high, interacting with other fans, travelling
all over to catch a glimpse of the objects of your obsession or to commune with
other like-minded fans. Indeed, those are some of the best parts of fandom, but
there are also the quiet times you spend at home alone either watching the
movies, reading the books, listening to the music, whatever the case maybe.
There are the times when your ears perk up in public when a stranger mentions
something and you DON’T say anything but feel that little rush of pride or
kinship. Or perhaps extreme defensiveness on behalf of your fandom, depending
on what was overheard. There is the aspect of spending (too much) money to
collect the merchandise or spending hours poring over magazines and Google
searching for every picture or article. My point being, you can be part of a
fandom without much interaction with other fans.
This also changed my view of myself. Until recently, I
thought of myself as a one-fandom kind of girl. It’s true that the whole
Twilight thing took over my life in a way nothing else has ever come close to
doing. But I also have separate chunks of my heart belonging to other fandoms.
Things have come and gone (I was a huge NKOTB devotee when I was a young girl),
and others will probably stick with me in some way or another for my whole life
(like my obsession with the TV show Friends).
The only thing that rivals Twilight in my life, at this
point, is the band Weezer. I have been a
fan since “the beginning” and it has only intensified over the twenty-year span
of their career.
Coming up later today, after PurpleBrina's Music Monday (all about MY favourite band), check out my story (part 1 & 2) about how I recently went to a free concert and ended up winning a guitar signed by the members of Weezer.
Coming up later today, after PurpleBrina's Music Monday (all about MY favourite band), check out my story (part 1 & 2) about how I recently went to a free concert and ended up winning a guitar signed by the members of Weezer.
fandom can be the most amazing fun positive thing to be a part of......... sometimes. Other times it's awful mean hurtful and you wish you never were a part of. I have met some of the most beautiful fantastic caring people in fandom but I have met some of the meanest cruelest jealousest people in fandom as well. it has its good and it has its bad they go hand in hand. I'm just glad most of the bad is outweighed by all of the good. Great blog post Kmah.
ReplyDeleteI loved this post!! I haven't thought of it that way. Being part of a fandom is amazing when you meet such great people. Well said Brina.
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